Sandra Pakalinsky
Passed away peacefully on April 16, 2025.
Beloved wife of the late Alexander Joseph Pakalinsky, Sandra was the heart and soul of her family. A loving mother to Alexander, Jerome Scott (Marianne), Susan Louise Simonson, the late Melissa Marie Pakalinsky, Rhonda Ann Doyle, and Michelle Renee Pakalinsky, she also embraced the role of "Mommy" to her cherished grandchildren: Alexandria Rose, Maria Grace Pakalinsky and Grandmother to Katrina Pakalinsky, and Jerome Pakalinsky.

Sandra was the loving daughter to the late Nancy and Joseph Nathanson, dear sister of the late Bernice Testa-Fletcher and is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends.

A devoted homemaker and matriarch, Sandra took immense pride in caring for her family. Her kitchen was her kingdom, where she lovingly prepared meals that brought everyone together. She was a natural nurturer, both to her family and to the many dogs she welcomed into her home over the years — never fewer than four at a time.

Sandra was a woman of deep faith. A devout Catholic, she strove to live her life in accordance with her beliefs — with kindness, grace, and compassion. She loved singing, dancing and playing the piano to Queen. She found peace and joy in nature, especially by the ocean, where she loved to spend time reflecting and relaxing.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend her Memorial Mass on Saturday, May 3, 2025, at 11:00 AM at Christ the King Church, followed by her burial at Resurrection Cemetery.
Sandra will be remembered for her unwavering love, her warm and generous heart, and her strong, guiding presence. She will be deeply missed